Need some advice
I am 24 years old and have only recently became sexually active, same with my girlfriend, she is 25 I am 24., we were both virgins. When we have sex or make love she makes all kinds of pleasurable noises and so on and so do I . The problem I have yet to ejaculate during intercourse, we do lots of foreplay before and on times it even seems that i am almost there but doesn't happen. When I masturbate on my own in private, while looking at porn or what not I ejaculate no problem. I don't understand why its not happening as easly when I make love to my girlfriend. I do have a condition called Neurofibromatosis type 1 and she has spina bifida but there is no reason any of these two should have anything to do with it, from what I read about these two conditions , theirs no reason why we cant have a healthy sex life. Do I need to relax more do we need to do more foreplay? Also when she preforms oral sex on me, with out a condom, as were the only two people we've ever been with, my penis is extremely sensitive and almost unbearable, is there anything we can do about this? I haven't ejaculated during oral sex, the only time I have was when she have me a hand job, I hope that's the proper term to use.
Can anyone offer some advice, To me this seems like a problem that's easily fixed?