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bigj108 · 11-19-2010, 06:03 AM

Alright fellas. I am so emasculated right now i dont know what to do. I just recently got out of a monogamous 7 year relationship where i never wore condoms. So I start hooking up with a girl i have been interested in for a long time. Everything is going great until last night we decide to go for it. i am hard as a rock and i open the condom package and immediately go limp. I have no idea what to do. PLEASSSSSE help me guys. Any and all advice will be so greatly appreciated.

WhenItRains · 11-20-2010, 12:55 AM

Hey,I'm not a guy,but I have a few suggestions.You are certainly not the first guy this has happened to.
Putting the condom on quickly,and correctly can seem a bit stressful for guys.I have found they like it if the girl does it for them.That way you can relax and it's kind of sexy having someone slide it on you,eh?
I've got the art down to a matter of seconds and guys appreciate it a lot.

Also,there are some better kinds out these days.Have you tried the "Bare" or "Skyn" ones? They are thinner and transer body heat so they feel more like the real thing

bigj108 · 11-20-2010, 05:42 AM

Thank you for the advice. I actually bought the "bare" condoms yesterday to give them a shot. Although last night i did not need them. It appears I just needed a little liquid courage. I had two drinks (far from drunk) and we went at it again only this time it worked!!

Jay60 · 11-20-2010, 07:15 AM

Hey, I'm glad you finally got past that issue, but I'd like to discourage you from depending too much on "liquid confidence". Alcohol can also sometimes be anti-productive when it comes to sexual performance. So, I agree with WhenItRains. Rather than putting it on yourself, which is a rather unsexy, distracting chore, just ask her to put the condom on you during foreplay. For instance, if she's doing oral on you, she could incorporate putting it on you during that while you're busy doing something nice for her.

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