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Old 02-03-2011, 02:31 PM   #1
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Question Question About Sex for Men over 60+

I'm seeing someone who's a bit older than I am (he's 62, I'm 44).

I have some questions I'd like insight into.

He told me that a few years years ago, he started having some erection problems and now uses injections to get an erection (which works!) but he mentioned he doesn't always orgasm. He says he loves the BJ I give... but has yet to orgasm.

I would really like reassurance from men that not climaxing/ejaculating is not about me and is not a measure of his desire (or lack of) for me. Is it??

Is a lack of orgasm somewhat typical of a man his age and/or one who is using injections?

If he doesn't climax, is it physically frustrating or does it all just feel good? (meaning, do I continue to try to get him off, or just figure he's enjoying whatever happens?)

He's very passionate and turned on by me, so I shouldn't assume "malfunctions" are about me, right?? I guess I'm not sure what to expect when we do sleep together. (we haven't had full sex -intercourse-yet- just a lot of fooling around, but probably will within the next few weeks)

Any insight/info is appreciated. Thanks guys!

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Old 02-03-2011, 06:59 PM   #2
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Re: Question About Sex for Men over 60+

TJ,
As someone in that age range I can confirm that it can sometimes take a really good time and a really good amount of time to reach orgasm. My way out, if it just does not seem or feel likely to get done without some help, is often to just take matters into my own hands, but with her hands helping and encouraging all the way to orgasm -- maybe back inside, maybe into the air, maybe oral. A partner can appreciate a 'git er done' method rather than having him go on and on and on forever. Us older guys are certainly never worried about premature ejaculation!

 
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Old 02-06-2011, 09:43 AM   #3
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Re: Question About Sex for Men over 60+

Thanks rbbb
I appreciate your reply!

 
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