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Old 02-07-2011, 09:04 AM   #1
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Can't Ejaculate During Sex

I've been doing Google searches on other sites, but I want to see if this theory is valid:

Basically, I can't ejaculate during sex--whether penetrative nor fellatio. I read that this is because my body and organs have adapted to other forms of orgasm, in this case, masturbation (I do so daily, upwards of three times per day on occasion).

What happens is that I could be on the verge of a climax, but then I clench my PC muscle, unintentionally, and nothing happens. From here, I end up tiring myself out. During masturbation, however, I can ejaculate less than twenty seconds into it, if I want.

The theory is that I should abstain from masturbation, or at least limit myself, as a way to re-train and sensitize my body. Is this correct?

 
Old 02-08-2011, 11:15 AM   #2
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Old 04-02-2011, 01:19 PM   #3
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Re: Can't Ejaculate During Sex

Too much masturbation can do this, however, it can be fixed by simply not masturbating so much, I hear men who masturbate 3 or 4 times a day, thats way too much! In my younger days id do it once a day, and now maybe once every 2 to 3 days, thats the normal amount. If you cut down on your masturbating over a month you will see an improvment when your having sex, but remember other factors could be going on, such as mental problems(Stuff on your mind), your in the wrong position,(doggy style works for most) or maybe she doesnt turn you on enough, or a combo of all three. Also Medication such as anti-depression meds can be a problem. Just have to clear your mind and use your imagination, Try acting out something you saw in a porno,maybe pretend your in a porno. Simple things like this can help big time.

 
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Old 04-13-2011, 08:04 PM   #4
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Re: Can't Ejaculate During Sex

Thanks for the responses. Masturbation is more than likely a factor, plus I've been under a lit of stress, lately.

 
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