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Old 10-23-2011, 01:28 PM   #1
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Can't climax during sex

This is something that's dogged my sex life since it began. When I masturbate, I have no difficulty climaxing. I'm not particularly rough with myself while doing so and at most during my late teens (24 now) I was masturbating twice daily. For the last couple of years this has been down to 3 or 4 times a week. Whilst my partners have always thoroughly enjoyed my being able to maintain an erection for great lengths of time - regularly for up to 4 hours - I'm always left feeling somewhat deflated after sex and I worry that to the other person it appears that I'm not attracted to them or aroused by them enough to finish the job. If anyone could offer any advice that might help me work around this it would be greatly appreciated!

 
Old 10-24-2011, 05:40 AM   #2
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Re: Can't climax during sex

You've become accustomed to masterbation which has much more direct penile stimulation than vaginal walls offer even though you say that you don't handle yourself in a rough way. Most women will take your failure to ejaculate personally if it happens repeatly, which in your case appears to be the norm. You need to go on a masterbation diet, more like a masterbation fast, and retrain your member to repond to the sensations that vaginal penetration will provide you. Once you have become more versatile in your ability to ejaculate you can resume occasional masterbation.

 
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