Hard to Ejaculate with New Girl - Need to Masturbate
Hi,
I always had this problem... whenever I meet a new girl, I struggle and I just cannot get excited... Sometimes it takes 1-1,5 hours until I can ejaculate.
I feel tense, get tired and they really get annoyed.
Thing is I find it very hard to ejaculate with a girl, it works so much better if I do it to myself... not good, not normal...
During my teens I had premature ejaculation, now at 30, just like in my 20s, it's so hard reaching that point...
Re: Hard to Ejaculate with New Girl - Need to Masturbate
I'm the same way. It's really frusterating how annoyed they get. The longer I go the more difficult it is for me to finish and when it really gets in my head I can't stay hard. Pretty embarassing and no way to explain it without souning like an a$$.
If they even bother with me another time or more I have to figure out a specific position or angle that works for me and then it becomes the go to move to finish every time after and its different for each girl.
Re: Hard to Ejaculate with New Girl - Need to Masturbate
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Originally Posted by David757
Hi,
I always had this problem... whenever I meet a new girl, I struggle and I just cannot get excited... Sometimes it takes 1-1,5 hours until I can ejaculate.
I feel tense, get tired and they really get annoyed.
Thing is I find it very hard to ejaculate with a girl, it works so much better if I do it to myself... not good, not normal...
During my teens I had premature ejaculation, now at 30, just like in my 20s, it's so hard reaching that point...
Any advice?
Well, my advice to you would be to tell the lady you are with that you are having problems reaching orgasm due to being nervous. If she is at all worthy of you, she will be kind, patient, and flattered. Focus on her pleasure and try to relax. If you move back and forth from sexual intercourse, to manual stimulation for her or oral sex on her, it should provide her plenty of pleasure and give you time to try to relax and not feel as if you have to keep going and going until you reach the point of no return. Good luck to you.
