Never Climaxed from Oral - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

09-19-2002, 11:09 AM

Sad to say this, but I am 30 and never reached an orgasm from recieving oral.

I have no problem getting there with manual and intercourse.

I have had countless partners try..... even ones claiming to be experts, but no luck.

I always thought it was an issue with being comfortable with my partner, but I have been in a relationship for about 3 years now and have not been able to prove that theory.

I have even gone as far from obstaining from release as long as i possible could to see if i could force it.

About 1.5 years ago I got a PA (prince albert) in the hopes that it would increase the sensitivity. But No luck!

I was circumsised as a baby, there is a bit of a scar.... Could they have cut too much off? Too embarrassed to ask my mom if something went wrong down there.

Any similar experiences?

Help!!! I'd love to come from a BJ!

Snagglepuss · 09-19-2002, 04:44 PM

oh my god you pierced ur dick just cuz u thot it would make it more sensitive?!?! u are one crayze person man! if i was a guy and i couldnt climax from a blo i wouldnt go out and PIERCE MY DICK haha but hey to each his own. but damn... didnt that hurt!!

lascot · 09-19-2002, 11:13 PM

You can't "force" orgasm. RELAX
Stay clean & sober for the act...
BWT

(see you soon LAS http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/love1.gif)

Marco · 09-20-2002, 10:01 AM

Could be you need the kind of pressure on your penis that lips and tongue can't quite provide. Have your partner combine oral and manual, gradually increasing in pressure and intensity ... see if that works. (Works for me!)

PeterDenmark · 09-22-2002, 01:19 PM

It took me a lot of BJs before I was able to come from one, but then at some point I found out something that works for me. If the girl fiddled with my nipples at the same time as she was giving the BJ, I could come! Now, since that's a bit specific, it may not work for you. - But try the parts of the body that works best for you.
I still can hardly come from a BJ without the nipple stimulation, so it's not that it removed the prob, I just learned a way around it