Blastoff9600

Yes it has been asked before. The following will explain it. But men can ejaculate without orgasm and can orgasm without ejaculating.

The following can be found in the book The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. By Chia and Abrams


To become multi-orgasmic man,you need to understand some basic facts about your anatomy. The most important fact is that orgasm and ejaculation are different. This is so startling for most men(and women) that we need to explain exactly how they are different. Let us begin by defining orgasm and ejaculation. Physiologically,an orgasm is the contraction and pulsation that most men feel in their penis,prostate,and pelvic area. It is accompanied by an increased heart rate,breathing rate,blood pressure and results in a sudden release of tension.
Obviously,orgasm is much more than these rather mechanical physiological changes. It is the peak experience of sex for most people,and it is one of the most intense and pleasurable parts of being human. If you have ever had an orgasm,and almost all men have,you know exactly what we are describing.
Ejaculation,however,is simply a reflex that occurs atn the base of the spine and results in the ejection of semen. It is,in short, an involuntary muscle spasm.
Granted,it is a pleasurable muscle spasm,but it is a muscle spasm nonetheless. Sense so many men have learned to connect all the pleasure of orgasm with ejaculation,it is important to understand that most of the lighting and thunder that you associate with ejaculation is really what comes with orgasm--with or without ejaculation.

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