Sex first time..is it really tough???? - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

rc1978 · 01-13-2003, 05:48 AM

Hi Friends,
I will be getting married soon..but few of my friends say..its very difficult to have sex on first night..& they say it really hurts when both of them are brand new ! http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/love2.gif
I m bit upset to hear this..How does having sex with a Young women differ compared to having sex with a women who is mother of a child..?..Plz share ur experiences.. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/idea.gif

german30 · 01-13-2003, 09:58 AM

I'm assuming that both of you virgins, and yet your second question puzzles me. I can only tell you about our first night on our honeymoon. We simply let our emotions take their course and yes we both orgasmed in short time, but soon after petting and fondling were ready for more intercourse, as far as being painful, we did not experience any, just be sure that both of you are lubricated properly, without that yes it could be painful. Good luck and may you have many years of marriage

rc1978 · 01-13-2003, 10:15 PM

Thx for ur reply,
U gave a very technical answer to my question..since i m a engineer i m glad to hear that the same tricks help even in real time operating systems...

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My second question was..when can u enjoy sex at it's best..options are
(a) While having sex with a brand new women ..OR
(b)While having sex with a experienced women..(Mother of atleast one child)