This may seem like a weird question, but do you guys pleasure yourself everyday? My husband likes to bring toys in bed during sex which I have no complaints about. But recently found one hidden in the den closet. It seems to move some daily so I know he's using it. I'm afraid I would embarrass him if I ask about it. Lately, he wants to stay up late and watch "sports" on TV so I go on to bed. We have a normal sex life, but I wonder if he is really satisfied. Is this normal for a 40 year old?
Thanks for you input. I quess I will stop wondering if he's not pleased with my performance. I asked a good friend about her husband and she swears he doesn't. Guess it's not something you tell your lady.
[This message has been edited by luv2play (edited 01-15-2003).]
DH actually does tell me because I love to hear about it. He does tend to do it more when we are apart(he is air force) or when I cant have sex. Which has only been a few times and it wasnt by my choice.
It varies from guy to guy on what can be normal for them. Yes for some masturbatng daily is very normal and for others it is once in a while if at all.
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Don't worry at all, probably has nothing to do with your sex life or ability to please him. Each of us guys is different and have different masturbation and sexual appetites. I don't masturbate everyday, but have continued several times a week since I married almost 9 years ago.
Do married guys masterbate everyday? 
HOpe that helps!
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