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Let me punt on a few things, some of which are more obvious than others. - You are young. I think this is pretty obvious from the enquiry itself, and you imply that you only yet contemplating oral sex or intercourse as such, but the significance is that there really is a "learning" process itself. Stories of people's first experiences of orgasm from masturbation (or indeed, just masturbation alone before managing to achieve orgasm, let alone ejaculation) are always fascinating indeed, and unless I am very much mistaken, a common theme is the process of learning the degree of persistence needed to "get there".
Indeed, it seems to be quite uncommon for people and particularly, guys, to actually "invent" the whole process of masturbation to orgasm, without the guidance of another showing them how, how long it needed to be done, and what the result actually looked like. And those who do discover it for themselves, possibly more often do so by "humping" - thrusting against pillows, cushion, bed, toys or sometimes more imaginative objects, than stroking by hand.
Now, this "humping" process tends to involve tensing the legs which, except that it is more cyclic (rhythmic), is presumably quite similar to what I think you are describing. Indeed, if you are tensing continuously as part of the stroking process, it is quite possible, but exhausting, to achieve orgasm by the tension alone with no stroking. However, such a mode of masturbation lends itself much less easily to demonstration, and that may be why stroking by hand is the technique more commonly taught.
In any case, the "learning" process, is such that when you first learn masturbation, particularly stroking by hand, it generally requires quite persistent and vigorous stroking for some minutes before you feel the pleasurable feelings of the imminence of orgasm/ ejaculation. Generally though, over a period of time, whether months or years, you "learn tricks" in terms of particular spots, directions and pressure with which to stroke, so that you can speed up the process. Obviously your "leg tightening" is one to which you have become so accustomed, that without it, it would take even longer.
- I don't recall from your other posts, but I presume you are circumcised. Make no bones about it, the very reason that circumcision was generally introduced into American(, British and Australian) "medical" practice, and which practice is still in the throes of its eventual extermination as one of the more incredible (along with its female counterpart) human rights abuses ever to persist; that very reason was to make masturbation difficult and unrewarding, even proposing to [url="http://www.****.org/library/history/gollaher/"]prevent it[/url] altogether!
Of course circumcision does not prevent masturbation, but it most certainly does make it more difficult and less rewarding, and I suspect it does for you. If that is the case, that you are circumcised, then you may not have adequately explored what you can do, by stroking using a lubricant such as those commercially (and very readily) available as "personal" lubricants.
- When it comes to intercourse (or oral sex) with a young lady, then you may find things surprisingly different. Not only is the feel of the vagina much different to - and in almost all ways better than - just about anything else you may have done by way of masturbation, (and part of that because the lubrication as just mentioned, is better, more effective) but there is an extra factor by way of stimulation - nothing less than the excitement of seeing your partner respond to you stimulating her - something you will never have with masturbation alone.
- Returning to the first point, as you get older, you will develop with practice, and even without, the ability to "streamline" the process, at least of masturbation, to bring on the ejaculation more easily, without the "gimmicks", and hopefully, to alternately delay it when desired.
Unfortunately though, I am not able to offer you any simple answer about having multiple orgasms. This seems to be a knack that some people just have, and is otherwise difficult or impossible to learn. |
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