ugly vagina? - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

RioSwimmer · 01-15-2003, 08:40 AM

Okay, heres the deal...My vagina looks like any other normal one, but for some reason my boyfriend doesnt get turned on by looking at it. He told me it looks kinda gross. Well yeah if you really think about it they are purdy nasty looking, but so are guys' penises!
Dont get me wrong, he does love to please me, by oral, fingering or sex, and he does seem to get very horny while doing these things to me. But i guess i feel kind of weird because he said it doesnt make him horny by looking at it because it looks so weird.
Are any other guys like this??

[This message has been edited by bfl (edited 01-15-2003).]

silently confident · 01-15-2003, 10:22 AM

i have seen some that a really nice to look at then there are some that are unattractive.

F-Man · 01-15-2003, 01:23 PM

When I look at a woman the parts that I find attractive are her face, her butt, her legs, her breasts, her feet, her hair. While the vagina feels great, it doesn't look all that great. I think your boyfriend is normal. You said yourself that vaginas are "purdy nasty looking" so I don't understand why you're surprised your boyfriend feels the same way.

If this is upsetting you then you're getting upset over nothing.

ravlin · 01-15-2003, 01:30 PM

If you say it looks normal, then I doubt there's anything wrong. Some people get turned on by different things. I love looking at my wifes and get really turned on. But, I feel the same looking at pictures of other womens vaginas also...it's a beautiful thing. I definitely don't know what you mean by nasty looking

It's just not his cup of tea, I guess.

silverwill · 01-15-2003, 08:12 PM

I dated a guy who said the same thing to me--that mine was kinda ugly. He still had sex with me, but refused to go down. Over the summer, my friend & I caught him in the shower with his guy friend (who my friend was sort-of dating). Maybe he needed help finding the soap. I doubt it was up his a** though!