Down time - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

volty · 01-20-2003, 09:23 PM

I've just recently become sexually active. Anyway, me and my girlfiend had sex this afternoon, etc. Afterwards, about an hour later, we decided to do the deed again. But I just couldnt get it up to save my life. It'd get to about half-mast, and stay there. How much downtime do I need? I was nervous, yeah, but it wasnt my first time. And I havent had a problem before.

I can sympathise with anyone who has had these problems before. Is it normal? Did I just need to wait longer? Or could it be me being nervous/tired? Or is it something else?

Thanks, guys.

Conflicted · 01-20-2003, 11:12 PM

Viagra? No, just kidding, it happens, I wouldn't worry about it. When it comes to sex it should be natural, if it's not functioning, you're more than likely just a little out of it. If it's a common occurence, you're either nervous/anxious but if that's not the problem you should see your doctor.

Weaver · 01-21-2003, 11:59 AM

Some guys can go again in just a couple minutes after they ***. Others take a few hours to recharge the old battery and get it up to full mast again. You are perfectly normal. In fact as you get older, it will take longer to recover, might even be an entire day before you can be erect again.

In the mean time, think of other ways to please your lady. She will be begging for more by the time you are ready.

volty · 01-21-2003, 05:35 PM

Sounds like a plan.

The only problem is, all I can think about is that this happened. So the next time, I'll be so hung over about it, I wont be able to do something either...

Weaver · 01-21-2003, 09:09 PM

DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!!!!!

Worrying is the worst thing you can do. It will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Just get with your girl, enjoy some foreplay and see what comes up. You never know what will happen. Odds are that a 19 year old guy will be a full mast in no time. If not, remember that there are other ways to please her than using your dick. Check out a few of them and you will have her eating out of your hand. Or, she might be playing with something else that can bring you a lot of pleasure if you know what I mean.

I hav found that I become the most turned on by bring my girl to orgasm once before I even try to insert my penis.

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