Unable to Masturbate - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

JessicaSmiles · 01-25-2003, 10:47 AM

I would like to know if anyone else has experienced this. My husband (we are happily married) has NEVER masturbated..not even when he was a teenager. He is 36 years old and says that it just never interested him. His hormone levels have been checked and they are fine. He does get erections and can ejaculate but only with my help (intercourse or oral sex). He does have the occasional wet dream when we haven't had intercourse for a while. We are now trying to conceive a child and going through infertility procedures which will require him to produce a semen sample without "access" to me. Does anyone have any similar experiences to share with respect to the lack of masturbation ability?

Thanks!

paulb · 01-25-2003, 07:27 PM

I can't really see why he would not have "access" to you. That is absurd and totally inappropriate.

I suggest you sort that one out with whoever is the problem.

JessicaSmiles · 01-26-2003, 06:56 PM

What I meant by not having access to be was that he would have to provide a semen sample during IVF egg retrieval. I would be under general anesthesia or just recovering from it at the time he would need to provide the sample.

I was really more interested in whether or not anyone had a similar experience of being (or knowing) a man who had NEVER masturbated.

F-Man · 01-26-2003, 11:32 PM

He might be the only one who has ever lived.

Apollo · 01-27-2003, 02:15 AM

If I'm correct, your wondering how he will give a semen sample, but since he has never masturbated, your wondering...well you can join him in the bathroom, for a few minutes, and I think you get my hint.

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