janeylane

Please forgive me for posting this here... at first I posted in the general sexual health board, but this seems more appropriate.
Here goes:

Hi everybody.
I have an odd question:
If a guy looks at loooots of straight (and lesbian) porn, but occasionally looks at men having sex together, or looks at "shemales" (transgendered people - men who have taken hormones and have breasts...), do you think it's really weird?
I am a woman, and I sometimes look at or fantasize about pretty weird stuff myself, but I always thought that men either prefer men, or are grossed out by anything gay.
Is that true? Or is that just society's attitude?

Also, if this same man tried some gay sex when he was very young, I feel that should be okay. I know a lot of girls get curious, especially when they are young and single, so why not men?
It should in fact be a good sign, given the porn, because it means he's not curious about what he might be missing. He knows what it's like and has not chosen to keep doing it.


What do you all think? Men out there - have any of you looked at or tried this sort of thing even if you consider yourself straight (or bisexual with a preference for women, however you choose to define it)?
Women - if this man were the man you loved, would you think it was cause for worry, or would you think it's great that a man can be so comfortable with his sexuality in spite of society's taboos?

Let me just add that our sex life is fabulous and intimate, that he is totally honest with me, that he insists that this sort of thing to him is just like my various occasional fantasies - some of which might be considered weird by some.
So, there are no signs of anything being wrong, and it feels wrong of me to judge him just because he's a man. Why should women be allowed curiosirty but not men? We all know men are usually so much more sex-obsessed than women... ) Yet I feel like we're not normal somehow just because of these things.


Thanks )