Please Explain (help!) - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

JLove112 · 03-31-2003, 05:59 PM

i'm hoping that someone may be able to help me make sense of this...

i was with my boyfriend and while we where having sex he asked me if he could ejacualte on my face.
i said no.
after he was certain i'd declined he didn't press the issue.

i swallow his semen, i let him ejaculate on my body..but somehow i find the thought of him getting off ON my face degrading.

we have a close relationship but still afterwards i really didn't want to bring it up with him and he hasn't mentioned it either.

i'm just curious as to what i should think of this...i mean is this a normal request?

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GoodnightElisabeth · 03-31-2003, 06:19 PM

It's totally normal. It's all a matter of personal preference...and I completely agree with you with that it would be almost degrading.

However, I WOULD talk it over with him. You wouldn't want anything unnecessary coming out of this. If you have as close a relationship as you say, there shouldn't be a problem. Bring it up to him. You'll feel a million times better when the talk is over. I'm sure he'll understand.

HGF109 · 03-31-2003, 10:23 PM

no its totally normal . . . some people just have issues with certain things . . . . unless i've worked out that day or recently, i dont like my g/f sticking her hand up my shirt (she always runs her hand around my chest) cuz i feel chunky, LOL . . (even though its probably in my head)

i used to have a g/f who didnt like me getting hear her ***, touching it or anything like that . . . and we were practically married and she didnt have issues with anything but that . . .

its just normal and if u really have an issue with it i suggest u just tell him peacefully and talk it out . . .if the relationship has potential (assuming thats important to u in this kinda relationship? im sure it is . . .) then it shouldnt be a problem (there are the kinda issues that make marriage and sex a good mix, lol)

NewMe · 04-01-2003, 08:56 AM

It is TOTALLY normal, and one of my fetish's.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE FACIALS.

tinkers · 04-01-2003, 06:46 PM

New me, I'm with you. I love it and don't find it degrading. My husband is good to me and in no way would try to hurt me. I find that when he ejaculates on my face it's a huge turn-on!
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