Is there anyway for me to increase the size of my glans? Im embarrassed by the head of my penis. Its much smaller than the rest of the shaft and such, only when fully aroused about to achieve orgasm does it gain in size.
In porns i see most men as having atleast the same size glans as the rest of their penis, sometimes bigger. Am i not getting enough blood to it? Anyway to increase that?
I also have a problem with sex, i have only had sex 4 times but i havnt been able to ***. Maybe i just didnt do it long enough, but i tried it with and without a condom and neitehr time did i get close...i was just doing it for her, although i enjoyed the intamacy.
I feel embarrassed by this and i feel it makes my penis look smaller than it is. People tell me it isnt small 7 inches or so is good right? but when looking at it myself it seems very inadquete. And i hear stories about other men gettin compliments on their large tools and it makes me even more hard for me to except my own.
Lots of men have casual sex with girls...and even tho id like to try that...and feel im missing out on a part of life by not. I feel i can only have sex with someone that loves me and that i feel wouldnt care about that. I just turned 20 and have only slept with 1 girl, because of that reason.
Anyway so i guess this is another "size post" but if i had bigger glans i think it woudl compliment my penis a bit better and make me less worried about it.
Yeah also about my penis being not so sensitive. I am circumsized, it takes me a long time to climax when masturbating. And when i had oral performed on me for the first time all i felt was like a warm feeling thats all...
Mind you the girl wasnt very good at sex nor oral, she basically just licked it a bit and barely stuck it in her mouth, but i feel i should have felt more than i did, during intercourse.
Has anyone else had this problem? Does anyone know how to fix it? please reply
wow what a post. They come in all sizes and a variety of shapes. Some are long and thin with elongated glans, some are short and fat with small glans, some curve up, some down, some sideways. There really is no correct shape. I suspect that a lot of your symptoms are being manifested because of your personal feelings about your *****. You should work with those thoughts, face them and accept your body. A visit to a urologist couldn't hurt. Take his time and discuss your concerns as openly with him as you have in your post here. He may have some suggestions for you. As to the sensitivity issue you may want to try some lubricating medium that increasing sensitivity.
One last thought, most guys your age reach orgasm way to fast. You may be blessed young man.
I saw a trick on making the head grow that made sense. Get a ***** pump, slip a piece of bicycle inner tube over the shaft so that the glans is the only part protruding. When pumped, the head expands and the tube holds the rest in check. A word of caution, though. Don't pump too hard or for too lung. It can cut off the circulation and cause damage. Just moderate vacuum preassure for no more than a few minutes at a time. Read a lot about it first on pumping sites.
There isn't anything wrong with you! Trust me! Don't compare yourself to men in porn movies! They are in the movies BECAUSE of the size of their *****es. They are not how most men look any more than super models are how most women look.
*****es come in all sizes and shapes. It's just the normal variation. Do you worry about your hair color? Eye color? Toenails?
There is nothing you can do to make your ***** look differently. The only thing you can change is the thoughts in your head I guarantee no girl will say, "Oh, sorry, I can't have sex with you now because the head of your ***** is too small." ??? Who would even think it? I'm married now, but when I was single I can tell you every ***** I saw looked different. I was never turned off. It's just something you accept.
Hope this helps!
[This message has been edited by Snazzy101 (edited 05-20-2003).]