It depends on the individual and the siutation. I mean, are you making love or is it a afternoon romp? Personally (I'm a guy), I like to make love very slowly, passionately, and sensually. If it's just pure lust and were going at it like animals, than the wilder the better. LOL!
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I think most guys like it both ways, depending upon the mood and situation. Sometimes we like the woman to be quiet and just lay there, other times we want her to be wild. It all depends.