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Old 07-28-2012, 07:09 AM   #1
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Issues when having sex (need advise & help)

Hi there, I'm 28 this year and it's my first few times trying to have sex with my fiancé.

Why trying? It's because as each time when we had a great foreplay, my penis always shrinks and become soft when I tried to insert into her vagina. This of course includes putting on the condom and me using a super thin condom as well.

Whenever she wants me to do the missionary position or even the doggy position, I just have no clue as what to do. It's simple isn't it, just insert into vagina and thrust.....but the thing is, I haven't the slightest clue on how to exactly thrust. I've done push ups before but those uses my arms and hands. I tried forcing my hips to thrust, but dear me, that causes my penis to shrink and I lost the mood to have sex.

That's the first issue, next issue I have is the part about me when putting on condoms, I losts my erection. I have tried not to masturbate between 10-14 days, to solve my erection issue but to no avail, same thing happens when we tried having sex again.

When we did the cowgirl position, my erection was hard and steady but after a while she got tired and lay on top of me, my penis became soft again. It's impossible for her to cowgirl all the way.

I'm considering to take Viagra / cialis to solve this issue but since I had my blood pressure checked today. I'm on the border line side. Am I still able to take those pills without killing me in the process to safe my engagement?

Anyone that can advise or experience that anyone can share with me to solve the sex issues that I'm facing I'll appreciate it. I'm open for suggestions.

 
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Old 07-28-2012, 08:00 AM   #2
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Re: Issues when having sex (need advise & help)

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Originally Posted by Hisodin View Post
Hi there, I'm 28 this year and it's my first few times trying to have sex with my fiancé.

Why trying? It's because as each time when we had a great foreplay, my penis always shrinks and become soft when I tried to insert into her vagina. This of course includes putting on the condom and me using a super thin condom as well.

Whenever she wants me to do the missionary position or even the doggy position, I just have no clue as what to do. It's simple isn't it, just insert into vagina and thrust.....but the thing is, I haven't the slightest clue on how to exactly thrust. I've done push ups before but those uses my arms and hands. I tried forcing my hips to thrust, but dear me, that causes my penis to shrink and I lost the mood to have sex.

That's the first issue, next issue I have is the part about me when putting on condoms, I losts my erection. I have tried not to masturbate between 10-14 days, to solve my erection issue but to no avail, same thing happens when we tried having sex again.

When we did the cowgirl position, my erection was hard and steady but after a while she got tired and lay on top of me, my penis became soft again. It's impossible for her to cowgirl all the way.

I'm considering to take Viagra / cialis to solve this issue but since I had my blood pressure checked today. I'm on the border line side. Am I still able to take those pills without killing me in the process to safe my engagement?

Anyone that can advise or experience that anyone can share with me to solve the sex issues that I'm facing I'll appreciate it. I'm open for suggestions.
Follow your intutition.Your very young and its more then likely you get distracted ect.try the blue pill,you might also want to take some herbals,like nettles extract and tonkat ali root extract.relax and even try longer foreplay with zero distractions.have fun

 
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