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Wes1981 07-11-2003 03:04 AM

Short penis
 
My penis isn't much longer than 5 inch when errect.
This is so embarrasing and I feel like every girl will directly run away when it comes to sex.
I also need to lose some weight cause I also have some fat around the penis, if I lose this fat I can maybe gain a few millimeters but it won't change much.
This disturbs my whole sex life. I am always scared of having sex with a girl this is why I quit all the relations before it comes to sex :(

Of course, many women say that the size doesn't matter but many women also say that it matters and I don't wanna be laughed at.

Lance2 07-11-2003 06:13 AM

Hey bud, listen up. The greatest majority of all of us have penises just about that same size. You're in the majority, don't let that stop you from experiencing one of the greatest pleasures in life. Most girls don't fall in love with the penis...they fall for the owner. Be the best man you can, treat them like queens and don't give your penis another thought. As long as it works, there isn't one thing to think about other than using it as it was intended...when you're ready and prepared. As to the weight issue. I'll share this with you. In the last year and a half I've lost about 40 pounds. That has led to an increase in the appearance of my flaccid penis. YEP, losing that extra bit of fat does allow more of your penis to be visible. So, please stop denying yourself a relationship and sex based on these thoughts. Be proud of yourself and about being a man...now go out and forget about this stuff, you'll be glad you did!

Rixtar 07-11-2003 06:58 AM

Wes1981, you said "I feel like every girl will directly run away when it comes to sex."

Has it happened? I think that you like most men are stuck in a competitive mindset. This thinking is all about comparisons and is rooted deep in the male psyche.

Women do not think the same way. Unlike men they are more interested in the person first which is why they often want to get to know you first.



Samisunrider 07-11-2003 07:16 AM


I gotta agree with the gentlemen who posted previously. Dont worry about it mate! Fine- its not a porn star penis, but thats all those guys have got ;)
It works, right? So use it! First off sexual intercourse is only a small part of "sex", youll discover that you will have just as much fun and pleasure (and so will she) without even putting the penis in! Secondly when it is in, it doesnt matter if its 4 inches or 8, if you know what she wants and how she likes it, then you will please her no matter what the size. Third off it really does depend on the woman! I am of average size but my girlfriend is small, so it ends up beind a very tight fit. So remember its not just your size that counts ;)
I take it from your name you're 21, so am I, we are young, lets have a little fun while we remain this age :P Dont turn another girl away!!!!!!

Wes1981 07-11-2003 09:15 AM

Thanks for your replies.
I simply have the feeling that most women expect something like a 8 inch penis and when they see that it's not that long they are disappointed.
In the talkshows most women also say that they like big penises.

Rixtar 07-11-2003 02:04 PM

Wes You have been watching to much porn. Most women would rather be tickled that torn.

Wes1981 07-12-2003 03:42 AM

Hmm, and you don't just say that to calm me ?

JAYB 07-12-2003 10:40 AM

Wes,
If you have been watching porn all you're going to see is large. They wouldn't put the guys in the movie if they weren't big. Check out the surverys on the net and you'll see you're normal. Some women may be into size but not all, just like some guys like big breasts, some like small, and some don't care.
Don't worry about it.

MrNice 07-12-2003 11:45 AM

5" is pretty close to "normal"...whatever that means.

Just as men have different preferences about the size of women's breasts, women have different preferences about the size of their lover's penises.

I think you are wrong about all women wanting 8" penises. I think few would really enjoy have intercourse with someone with a long penis that kept pressing against their cervix.

Stop worrying about how long your penis is (not that there is anything you can do about it anyway) and become the most caring lover you can be. Believe me, most women would much rather a kind, caring lover who makes sure their needs are satisfied manually, orally or via intercourse than have a lover with a large penis who could care less about their pleasure.


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