Slow down and be reasonable here, if you really "love" her. She is waiting for her own reasons--maybe to see if you really are the right one for her. If you keep pushing the topic, that will be her answer on what you're looking for. When the time is right, it will be right for both of you. Don't blow a shot at a great girl by being too pushy. Let her know that you want to become more intimate, definitely--but tell her it's her call when.... One thing you may not have considered here: would you rather be hooking up with someone who puts out for anyone? If and when she does choose you, that's gotta mean something special to you. Play this one with your heart, not your crotch: she may very well be the one that will make your life everything you ever hoped for.