I recently started dating a male who is uncircumsized... all my previous partners have been cut. this is very new to me and I don't know much about how to pleasure him because its new to me...
i went to preform oral sex on him for the first time and i noticed just under the foreskin when its pulled back there was this yucky substance that had a nasty smell... I had to stop what I was doing... i didnt get a close look cause it was dark, but what was it? and how do i get him to do something about it without hurting his feelings? I usually love giving oral sex but i was completely turned off by this
If he cleaned his penis right, there would be no smell at all and no "icky substance". So don't get turned off to uncircumcised penises because of this.
The "yucky" substance you wrote about is called smegma and is something which an uncircumsized man must learn to eliminate by retracting his foreskin and washing the area.
Perhaps you could shower together before you have sex and, as part of your foreplay in the shower, rollback his foreskin and wash the area. That may help him get the idea.
YEA I would take Mr Nice suggestion both of you take a shower before and you clean it for him just pull it back and soap it up making sure it is clean. I would also tell him about it the smell they he is going to have to keep it clean if he wants you to.... you know
I pretty much agree with everyone on this post...i'm uncut myself but never had this problem with the yucky stuff and smell...I cleanse my partner in crime everytime I shower....which is twice if not more a day
uncircumsized men usually produce fluids between their skin and glans, just like women do. it gets worse if a guy does not clean up properly. just remember that it's not about cleaning up only, it happens during sex for lubrication. you can tell him to take a shower before sex (if there's that time), that will help.