Originally posted by elco: |
Social anxiety and shyness can be effectively treated with the drug PAXIL....the effect is really quite amazing. The shyness just dissapears! Ask your doc about it.
Social anxiety and shyness can be effectively treated with "time and experience" not drugs! He's only 18 and dealing with a subject matter he's just starting to feel he wants to examine further, difficult at any age, let alone as a teen! You sound like a sales representative for paxil, more than someone trying to help.
Your only 18 everything your feeling is very normal,stop pressuring yourself and take your time. Begin with slowly exploring each others bodies without having intercourse until your comfortable and really ready. Listen to your inner voice which you might be mistaking for shyness, and wait. Believe me, if you were as shy as you think, you wouldn't be able to maturely approach and discuss the subject with your g/f as you have, so give yourself more credit. But most important, proceed at your own pace and not by some notion of when the time should be right,we are all different, so when, and at what age will vary with each individual.