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Old 07-30-2003, 09:04 AM   #1
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Question GUY OPINIONS: Erotic letter?

Hi,
My bf and I (both in our 20s) have been together for about 4 months, and things are fairly serious already. He's at the point where he feels comfortable discussing the possibility of marriage and children with me, under the assumption that we're staying together. He often tells me how lucky he feels to be with me (and I reciprocate), and even writes me poetry All googly eye stuff. We also both enjoy talking sexy to each other – telling each other what we fantasize about. When we start kissing and I begin talking to him like that, he'll get hard right away,

Today I wrote him a letter telling him how distracted I was when thinking of him at work today, and then I spent the next page explicitly telling him *what* I was thinking (erotica, basically). I’m thinking of dropping it off for him to read in his break at work. For all you guys – would you like it if your girlfriend wrote you something like that, or would you think it was cheesy and weird? Are letters different that talking in that way? Thanks.

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Old 07-30-2003, 09:49 AM   #2
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It would make me want to go home early! I'd love it if my wife did that and I suspect many other guys would as well!

 
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Old 07-30-2003, 11:17 AM   #3
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I think he would love it. Just make sure it doesnt fall into anyone else's hands at his work place. Also, maybe alert him so he doesn't open it in anyone else's presence.

Then wait for him to come home...

 
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Most guys will love it.

 
Old 07-30-2003, 04:01 PM   #5
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GO FOR IT! I have recieved an erotic letter or two from gf's and I loved it!!

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Old 07-30-2003, 06:04 PM   #6
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Sounds real nice, just make sure it goes from your hand directly into his.

 
Old 07-30-2003, 06:20 PM   #7
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also make sure he can leave work early, I know I would want to. U sound as if you r very carring and I hope ur b/f knows he has got one to hold on to. enjoy

 
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I'm female..... but for what it counts, YES, majority of males thoroughly enjoy a creative mind

 
Old 07-31-2003, 09:04 AM   #9
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Thanks for your replies everyone. I did give the letter to him at work, and he came by my house during his break, very surprised and happy and full of kisses and other things

He's had a lot more sexual experience than I've had (much of which he regrets) and yet he has never received a letter like that before...he said it was incredible to read Ahhh, when two English graduates get together......he writes me poetry, I write him romantic erotica

thanks again, all!

 
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