Does anyone know of any products, creams etc that make the penis more sensitive? I am trying to help solve my delayed ejaculation problem and thought if my penis were more sensitive that I might reach orgasm faster. Thanks for any advice someone may have.
Mojo: Lack of feeling in the penis is a classic symptom of retarded ejaculation. If you have checked out ok physically and there is no organic reason for your RE then it's a psychological problem.
The sex therapists don't have much luck treating it but some are now trying out viagra. Now viagra won't do a damn thing for the psychological part of RE but some claim the fact that you are rock hard seems to help with the numb penis problem.
Could also be your partner...if you have issues with her or are not that turned on by her in the first place that can cause RE.
A "hard" masturbation style can also make a preexisting RE condition worse.
Also...watch out for SSRI antidepressent meds, they can cause RE too (Paxil, Effexor, Prozac etc)
As far as a cream goes...I've never seen such a thing in my years of researching RE. But let us know if you find anything.
Stop masturbating, I mean, there will be times when you won't be able to have sex and will have to masturbate, but when that happens this is what I do:
I masturbate with my thumb and index finger making a ring, and only stimulating the base of my penis, barely touching my shaft and head with the rest of the hand, I also move my pelvis and not my hands. You will have an orgasm but your penis will feel as if you wanted more, but you just masturbate when you can't hold it anymore.
Also you only touch your penis when you have to pee, I mean never scratching or whatever.
Also do PC muscle excercieses, they will get your penis rock hard in a week and also you feel more excitation on your penis.
The combination of these techniques will make you very sexually arroused all the time, and you will want to masturbate or have sex mor often, sometimes you won't be able to hold that much because the anxiety of so much semen will beat you, but if you have to masturbate, do what I mentioned be4 when you can't hold it anymore.
After that, if your gf gives you a blowjob, you will get very hard and you can penetrate her really hard and it will be easier to orgasm.
Thanks for the advice Mr. Dick. I have actually tried stopping masturbating but it does not seem to make any difference, but I will try the exercises. Thanks
Mojo: Look, take it from me I've had RE all my life....if none of the suggestions here work get yourself to a doctor and get him to recommend a good sex therapist. The younger you are when you start treatment for this, the better the chances of getting it fixed.