Prostate milking is misunderstood by many, but this is the reason why you can use this technique to enhance your sex life. It can greatly reduce your sexual tension for several days, especially when your sexual partner is not readily available (if you know what I mean). As a matter of fact, they can do this. The only thing they should do is place one finger on one of their hands on your prostate (massaging it) and stroke your penis with another hand. The orgasm while doing this is very intense. You will notice your penis will be very erect. The experience will leave you with a clear mind and a soft penis, which is something that isn't always experienced after normal sex and/or masturbation. Let's get real, we would rather have one GREAT orgasm than 9 weak ones. Also, this is great for teenage boys who want to abstain from sex, and for those of you who have moral issues with sex before marriage and masturbate as long as you aren't *lusting*, then I am happy to tell you that the feeling is so intense that you won't be thinking about anything other than the feeling. With this, you don't need pornography and you don't have to lust. Have fun and enjoy!
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I hear ya, It's happend to me too, and it is a very different feeling, as well as a good one also. I guess alot of men feel, that being touched back there or even having a finger makes them gay, this is not true at all, in fact I have a friend who had it done by his doctor, well this is all for now.
If I'm not mistaken your prostate gland is not too far inside your rectum, all you need to do is make sure you are well lubed and just slide your finger inside and then you take ot from there, you'll know what to do by the way you feel.
Prostate stimulation can provide a wonderful addition to your sex life. It can be performed solo, as part of one's masturbation reptoire, or by one's partner. I have performed it on myself, and my wife also performs it on me. It is a lot easier to have someone do it to you, rather than try to do it yourself.
I highly recommend getting vinyl or latex medical gloves from a pharmacy and using them. Put on the glove, lube up with KY or other such lube, and enter gently. About 2 inches or so inside the rectum on the front wall - e.g. closest to the penis, you will locate a walnut sized area. This is your prostate. Stroke it, and enjoy.
I always loose my erection with prostate meassage. But, the erection always comes back, firmer than ever. Some drops of seminal fluid may drip out - this is normal.
The pleasure that occurs is beyond description. When you do ultimately *** , your ejaculation will be more powerful than usual and contain more fluid - again normal. I find it much more satisfying.
Using prostate stimulation with or without masturbation may help you to obtain a release of seminal fluid without having to fantasize or look at porn. For those with strong morals, this could provide a way of obtaining pleasurable release without lustful thoughts - simply focusing on the pleasurable sensations.
From what I have read the release of semen as a result of the "milking" is literally a flow rather than an ejaculation. I also read that there isnt a sensation of release similar to orgasm and ejaculation. The result however is that much more semen is released than in a normal ejaculation. I've also read that it can take upwards of 60 minutes to achieve a full "milking." The question to any of you have tried it...are those comments correct?
Originally posted by MrNice: From what I have read the release of semen as a result of the "milking" is literally a flow rather than an ejaculation. I also read that there isnt a sensation of release similar to orgasm and ejaculation. The result however is that much more semen is released than in a normal ejaculation. I've also read that it can take upwards of 60 minutes to achieve a full "milking." The question to any of you have tried it...are those comments correct?
Well, I've done prostate milking several times using a prostate massager called the Aneros. The semen does just flow out without any release sensation, just as you said. If you bring yourself to orgasm through normal masturbation while stimulating the prostate, the ejaculation is larger than normal and the orgasm is a bit more intense and longer lasting. But I don't consider that milking - that's masturbation with prostate stimulation.
Milking the prostate produces quite a bit of prostate fluid that looks just like regular semen, but no where near the volume as a regular ejaculation from orgasm. It feels good to milk the prostate, but not nearly as good as a regular orgasm. Although I've heard some people can achieve orgasm from just prostate massage, but I can't.
I've kind of stopped milking my prostate, as the last time I tried it I noticed a little bit of blood in the prostate fluid that dripped out, and it scared the hell out of me. I think I was pushing too hard with the Aneros device.
In my opinion, prostate milking is totally unneccessary - just masturbate to orgasm like normal, and you'll accomplish all the benefits of prostate milking with more pleasure and less problems or mess.
Prostate milking as described by Focus may be desireable for those who need release, but have moral qualms about masturbating. Sure, we all know that masturbation is OK, but some folks truly believe it is wrong. Perhaps prostate milking as described by Focus [release without orgasm]is a viable answer for them.
For most of us, we are talking about prostate stimulation leading to an actual orgasm. This enhances the experience, whether through masturbation or sex with your partner. It probably should be thought of as an occassional treat, rather than routine.
I suspect Focus that you were either pushing it too hard or too often.
Originally posted by Lambtube: Prostate milking as described by Focus may be desireable for those who need release, but have moral qualms about masturbating. Sure, we all know that masturbation is OK, but some folks truly believe it is wrong. Perhaps prostate milking as described by Focus [release without orgasm]is a viable answer for them.
I don't know if I agree with that. I consider prostate milking a form of masturbation. It's essentially anal masturbation. Why do I consider it masturbation? Well masturbation is the act of sexual self pleasure. Stimulating your anus to begin with is sexual self pleasure (anal masturbation). Stimulating your prostate, which is a sexual organ, is also sexual self pleasure. And face it, milking the prostate feels good, even without an orgasm. You can be masturbating and not have an orgasm. You don't have to touch your penis to be masturbating either.
So if you're milking your prostate, its feeling good, you're enjoying it... I'm sorry, but that's masturbation!