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azza15292 08-13-2012 12:22 PM

ive just lost my sex drive all together
 
heyy guys, ive not had sex in the last month after me and my long term partner split after 3 and a half years. i am 20 and i just cant ******* get it up. i dont why or how, ive just recently started seeing my first love again and never had a problem sleeping with her all those years ago, nor any other girlfriend or random person ive taken home. whats happening to me ? I have just recovered as an alcoholic, drinking 10-15 cans a night, sometimes with spirits on top. and ive smoked cannabis since the age of 14. ive also stopped smoking that and i feel great in myself, im a new person, but ive just lost my sex drive all together.., the foreplay can start and i got semi hard. then when it comes to putting the condom on it just flops :S i am so frustrated, i really really wanna do it but just cant. Been to see my GP and he claims that the alcohol and drug in take is nothing to do with it. He then gave me a prescription for 4 TADALAFIL/CIALIS 10mg, without even checking my medical history or my families history surrounding heart problems. no tests were done and he just said it was nervousness? but how could it be when she was the first person id ever slept with, why would i feel nervous to have sex with her when i love her and want to have sex with her, then it just flops. shes understanding about it but was angry that i wasn't just upfront and honest with her from the start, as it was quite embarrassing to come out with.

azza15292 08-14-2012 08:56 AM

Re: Enhancement pills. Question about their mechanism.
 
i tried Cialis for the first time last night.. it helped me to get a full erection at first,, however half way through sex it just flopped again :S im only 20 and have only experienced this for about a month now. its starting to ruin my relationship. any help or pointers as to what i can do.. doctor reckons its nerves, back of the mind thoughts while going to do intercourse but I cant even masturbate and get a full hard on at all. whats happening to me and why ?

al65al65 08-14-2012 11:43 AM

Re: Enhancement pills. Question about their mechanism.
 
RE: azza15292 "i tried Cialis for the first time last night.. "

It COULD be nerves... but do you have anything going on in your life (as a 20 year-old) that's really bothering you THAT much? The mind does play a big part in getting and sustaining an erection, but at 20, you should be getting erections just by looking at billboards...

I would ask how "turned on" are you by your girlfriend, but you mention that even when masturbating, it's not staying erect. That happens once in a while if you're head's just not in it, but it shouldn't be a regular occurrence.

If Cialis didn't work, try viagra. Try 25mg at first, then 50mg another day, then if that doesn't work, a last shot should be 75 or 100mg. If that's not working for you I would think there's something else going on. Maybe physical, but more likely, something "mental" that's really affecting your body's ability to become aroused. It's actually more common than you might think. But still, for an otherwise healthy (?) 20 year-old, not TOO common.

I hope this helps a little. I'm not a doctor!


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