in your opinion, is this weird or even wrong? - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

foureyes · 08-09-2003, 09:01 AM

hi ya'll

i just recently started to enjoy the pleasures of anal sex... on me that is. okay, its embarrassing to admit that i have been toying with my *** and my prostate for a while now and have immensely enjoyed it. its been a large part of my masturbation routine.

another thing, i just recently had a threesome (my first and first time having sex) with a bi-couple; i see myself as hetero, but willing to experiment. well it led to having anal sex performed on me, which was no suprise to me, i immensely enjoyed this. the nite was long and very enjoyable.

however, after this my old masturbation technique of fingering my ***, well got old and are not doing anything anymore. i still consider myself hetero and are highly turned on by the opposite sex, but now that feel of being anally stimulated is a must for me. a finger is not enough anymore. to those who have experienced this, you know what im talking about - the full feelings and the other sensations that one would not normally get with a finger. anyways, i was thinking of getting a vibrator or a *****. does this make me gay for wanting to have a penis shaped device shoved up my ***? what do you guys make of this? is this weird or even wrong? any opinion is appreciated

foureyes

MrNice · 08-09-2003, 10:11 AM

No..wanting a ***** or similar device to use for anal stimulation doesn't make you gay.

Since you enjoyed having anal intercourse with another male it may be that you are bi-sexual or it could just be experimentation on your part. Please be sure that your partner always wears a condom when he penetrates you anally.

As for wanting a device to stimulate your prostate ...there is a device called Aneros which is specifically made for this purpose. You can check it out on various sites that sell sex toys.

foureyes · 08-10-2003, 07:04 AM

MrNice,

thanks for the reply. yeah i have considered that i may be bi, but i consider being bi or gay to be muh more than just sex. but anyways, maybe i'll try the device u mentioned. thanks, foureyes

JDinCA · 08-10-2003, 11:09 AM

Sexuality is so complex and I don't believe it can be so easily categorized for many people. Don't worry so much as to what you are as to what you like and if having your anus stimulated brings you pleasure than so be it and have fun! But always be safe!

focus · 08-11-2003, 08:05 AM

If you have had anal sex with another guy (either giving or receiving), enjoyed it, and would like to do it again, then there's a strong chance you are at least bi-sexual.

Anal masturbation however, doesn't make you gay or straight. Its simply another form of masturbation, or pleasuring yourself. Many straight guys enjoy anal masturbation, but would never want anal sex from another guy. There is a difference.

I'm a straight guy who enjoys anal masturbation once in a while as well. I have an Aneros prostate masseger, and I used to own a large penis shaped *****, which I had plenty of fun with. I've also shoved countless items up my *** over the years searching for pleasure from that area. Did I enjoy this? Yes. Do I want to be stimulated there by a real man's penis? No way. Do I want to have sex with another man's anus? No way.

To summarize: anal masturbation doesn't mean you're gay or straight. Having anal sex with another guy or receiving it from another guy is a homosexual act. If you did this once or only a few times, and didn't really enjoy it or think its for you, you could probably chalk it up as experimentation. But if you enjoyed it, have done it several times, and would like to do it again, you're probably homosexual. If you also like sex with women, you're probably bi-sexual.

Hope this helps.