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Old 09-07-2003, 09:19 PM   #1
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Post sex ??? for guys

Ok guyz, i need some ?'s answered

1. How can I get my husband to perform oral on me? He has only one time since we have been together. (9 yrs)

2. I want sex EVERYNIGHT, but am lucky to get it once a month, I perform oral ALOT!!

3. Do most guys like to be on the top or bottom??

4. How can I turn him onto to more sex??

HELP HELP

 
Old 09-08-2003, 12:52 AM   #2
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Hi Brendapk....

I think many of your answers can (and maybe should) come from the source....by this I mean ASK your husband....this may be BEST done when not sexually aroused, and NOT watching a show, or doing other activities....just sit down and talk with your husband and ask him those same questions. For all if the strangers of the world to try to tell you what your husband of 9 years likes is not as good as simple direct communication.

To give you some possible STRATEGIES, here are some thoughts.....

1. Go to an adult shop TOGETHER and purchase some favorite flavors of sensual massage oils.....I know sometimes the strong smell down below can be a deturrent to some, but I have found that after rubbing in lots of nice "Strawberries and CHampagne" massage oil (flavored too!) that it helps a bit to get into the oral giving mood...

2. You obviously have different levels of sex drives....a possible solution to bring his drive up to yours is to get some viagra? I have never used this so ask others for input, but I have friends who swear by it...

3. I like various positions, though wife seems to prefer the missionary position.....to mix it up a bit I suggest spinning around on the bed to odd angles and positions (like doing it diagonally on the bed one time, then "off the edge" another time, even though both are missionary, it is still different....keeps it exciting).

4. Perhaps try watching some hot pornos together....my wife and I have talked about this a lot before we did it, and they are exciting to watch together....if he is CLEARLY not in the mood, then don't turn it on, but if he is kinda in the mood, putting one on and just WATCHING it for a bit will start heating him up (you too I bet!) hehe....

5. There are also many REALLY exciting sex toys out there.....get one and have fun experimenting....I suggest "The Silver Egg", and let HIM find uses for it...but give him "Hints" and some feedback....

Hope this helps....let me know how it all turns out...

Spinos

 
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