Hi guys. I have a question for you. Thanks in advance for always being so helpful. I am very attracted to my girlfriend, and we have just starting getting even closer. Right now, we usually have heavy makeout sessions. My girlfriend is conservative and wants to wait a while longer for sex, which I respect. However, when we make out, I get totally aroused. I'm afraid she'll notice and might be offended by this. Is there anything I can do to stop myself from getting turned on?
Most girls kind of like this - it makes them feel like a woman. If she comments on it, just tell her your find her so beautiful that you can't help it, but that you will wait for her and for her not worry that you will ever lose control or anything. In time, she might get curious and want to look at it, etc. For now, be grateful you have a gf who you can trust not to cheat around on you.
Hey guy...totally normal and means all is well with your equipment. There really is nothing you can do about it, she'll notice and I bet she'll understand. Don't worry about it at all and enjoy! May leave you with a case of blue balls and you'll just have to masturbate to make the pain go away.
If you still are embarassed and want to eliminate the arousal, the only thing I can suggest is to think about something else (other than your arousal) while making out.
Try thinking about mowing the lawn, changing the oil in an '87 Buick. That might help. And if that doesn't do the trick, fantasize that you are making out with Beatrice Arthur, the actress who played the title role in "Maude".
She will be more complimented than offended I guarantee that!
You're a healthy young guy and that is normal! Enjoy it one day when your older Pam Andersen could be trying her best to arouse you but your penis won't respond!
Enjoy this time!
99% of the people posting here have no idea who Maude
is or was, maybe Eminem but not Maude! haha
Originally posted by guy4654: Is there anything I can do to stop myself from getting turned on?
Yes. Stay away from her.
However, if that's not a reasonable solution, you might consider that she needs to adapt to the fact that 1) guys have dicks; 2) they get hard; 3) she makes yours hard; and 4) she's going to need to come to terms with that fact.
And so will you.
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Why do you want to stop it, its natural. Who knows, maybe if she realizes that you have a hard on, she will realize that you do dig her and she might be willing to do something about it and take care of it for you.