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Old 09-16-2003, 07:36 PM   #1
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Post porn movies?

Does any of the guys here that has a gf still keep
their porn movies around? If so why?

 
Old 09-16-2003, 09:59 PM   #2
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I'm a girl, but why throw them out? Many, many women enjoy porn too. Why not just get involved in the porn with him?

 
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Old 09-17-2003, 12:19 AM   #3
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I don't have a gf, but I've got my movies!

It's nice to have a "Plan B" I would think. The videos don't need your permission and never have a headache. Besides, it's still a mental variety.

Don't be insulted if he keeps them around. I might put mine into storage - but I don't plan on tossing them out!

 
Old 09-17-2003, 09:10 AM   #4
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I've got a girl friend and she'd KILL me if I threw them out. She loves it when we watch them sometimes.
Besides that, just because one has a signifigant other doesn't rule out masturbation. And porn mags and tapes, etc. can be very helpful stimulus.

 
Old 09-17-2003, 06:23 PM   #5
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It often seems that if the girl feels threatened by something, she will insist the man throw them out. Most women should not feel overly threatened by occassional porn-viewing and, as seen, many women like to view it, too.

 
Old 09-19-2003, 12:32 PM   #6
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Why are you gonna waste money. Just because you have a gf doesnt mean that you have to get rid of you videos. Personally I would get very mad at my husband if he got rid of them.

 
Old 09-21-2003, 11:22 PM   #7
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I have a GF and a pretty good sized collection of DVDs. She knows they are there but that is about it. She has no interest in watching them and I know when she comes over, I put them away.

I guess out of sight, out of mind with her.


 
Old 09-21-2003, 11:56 PM   #8
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I threw out my collection when my daughter got old enough to explore and question. My wife has always enjoyed good porn (which is to say, the raunchier and sleazier, the better) but I have mixed feelings about it. When I was single and younger, porn served a most useful function, but one which was clearly meant to substitute for a real encounter with a real women, but not replace it. When we rent a movie now, I watch, because I'm a guy and I'll always watch just like a dog will alwasy chase a car, but I don't really get turned on. I get real impatient and end up turning the movie off, and get to work turning my wife on. That seems to work for her too. Guess I got used to it as a solo activity.

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