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Old 09-04-2003, 03:47 PM   #1
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I am 18 and I am not really turned on by the idea of sex. It is more like the idea I am turned on by myself, and myself turning into other people.

I am serious! What is wrong, can any one help? Is this some strange psychological thing, please give me some advise about what can change this!
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Old 09-04-2003, 09:23 PM   #2
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Some people are just asexual. Do you want to change just to fit in? Or have you had bad experiences causing sexual aversion?

 
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Old 09-05-2003, 11:20 AM   #3
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I don't want to change to fit in, I just don't want to get old, and die alone. I want to have a family some day.

The reason I think I am turned on by the idea of turning into others is because their are other people that I would like to look like. I don't think this is normal, and I think it is weird.
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Old 09-06-2003, 12:53 AM   #4
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OK...I dont know if that s what u mean, but I like to imagine myself as a realy pretty guy when I jack off.
I also like to picture myself with a BIG dick...and I also like to look at my face in the mirror wlile I jack(I like my face. Im usualy aroused when I think in sex, but the esteticks play a major role on it.
U r never aroused picturing sex?

 
Old 09-08-2003, 09:04 AM   #5
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Travis, if you don't mind I have a couple of questions:

Have you ever had intimate contact of any kind with a person of the opposite sex? (Kissing, fondling, etc.)

What type of "Free-Time" activities do you enjoy?


 
Old 09-08-2003, 02:29 PM   #6
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If you were really asexual that would mean that you want to impregnate yourself... I hate to point out something like that when we all know what you mean, but it's a silly thing to say. Just FYI.

 
Old 09-08-2003, 07:26 PM   #7
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No, I haven't ever had any kind of intimate contact eith anyone.
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Old 09-21-2003, 07:44 PM   #8
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It is probably good if you like the way you look. 18 years old is not really that old and you will probably begin to feel like having sex with another person in the future. I wouldn't worry about being alone at 18.

 
Old 09-21-2003, 08:24 PM   #9
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You will continue to mature physically (sexually) and emotionally (mentally) give it time, use healthy releases, in time, you may find someone to become intimate with as you grow. until then, don't get hung up on it.

 
Old 09-22-2003, 09:11 AM   #10
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Travis:

What's weirdly ironic is that my name is also Travis and when I came across this post I thought to myself "Holy *****! Did I post this when I was 18 and forget about it!?" but then I looked at the post date and discovered that it was someone else.

I've experieced the same thing all through high school, some of college, I'm now married (23 yrs old) and I still have my days. I believe it had to do with how I felt about myself - low self-esteem. In my circle of friends it seemed there was always someone I wanted to be more like. It's complicated to explain so if you would like to have a "conversation" about it, please e-mail me at [removed] and I'd be more than happy to answer your questions and maybe share some experiences.

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Old 09-22-2003, 09:28 AM   #11
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U r absolutely ritgh about the low self steem TheMan9. Low self steem does delay sexual activity in the man. I beleave it happens the oposite way with girls with low self steem(start sexual life realy early). And I do beleave that time is the solution. With time u get more mature...and the good side is that u will be able to enjoy more the new experinces if u r more aware of ur self, more mature...
...at least thats what I think.

By the way, Im also a 18 virgin(will be 18 in about a month), so I know some uneaselyes...but Im ok now

 
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