Usually when my girlfriend is dry, I try 3 things.
First I whisper to her ear hot words, how hot she is for example (normally this does the trick for she gets really turned on)
Second, othertimes I just use my saliva. When doing oral sex I keep gently applying saliva with my mouth. If not doing oral, I might lick my fingers real wet and gently glide through the opening of her vagina (can be very erotic, especially if she licks my fingers instead)
Third, I might use lube.
Sometimes my penis might also go dry, and I just simply apply saliva with my fingers so everything goes smooth again.
I don't think anything of it. This happens to my girl friend a lot during the week right after her period. I simply just reach for the trusty Astro Glide, and it's all smooth and wet from there.
P.S- Just kidding ´round guys, no reason to get upset...So, its impossible for a girl to be hot and still be dry? I ask ´couse I know its posible for a guy to be hot and still stay flacid...I mean, that is what I heared...never happened with me but... hey, im 18, so...
Yes it is very possible for a woman to be aroused, excited, but still relatively dry. It happens to men all the time when they 'can't get it up'. They're excited, the mind is ready and excited, but in both cases, the body just isn't cooperating. It happens. No big deal.
My husband and I have sex just about every night. I am completely turned on but sometimes I stay dry. My problem is due to allergy medications, depression medication. I am off all of that and I take a ton of vitamins and finding myself in the same boat. So I have to figure out which of my vitamins is drying me out. So if you are taking any kind of vitamin, medication for anything, that might be the problem.
Ok, just have to mention that using saliva as lubrication is a bad idea. Your girlfriend will get yeast infections from this. Your saliva has bacteria in it.....You should always use actual lubrication for this and try and buy some with out glycerine in it. O'My Lube, which you can buy off the net, is the most natural lubrication out there and it's made with hemp which helps fight against yeast infections.
It is very normal for a woman to be dry even though she's really turned on. IT can be a result from something as simple as not drinking enough water. Birth control pills, hormones, can also be the culprit. And other times, it means, she's just not turned on. If I get really 'bored', lol, I get dry. Other times I can be really turned on and still dry. I try and always use lube even if I am a little wet. Keeps things fun!!
Since we are on the "dry" subject I thought I'd ask....My husband said his ex girlfriend was constantly dry! He said they could hardly even have sex because she was screaming from being so dry and his schlong was throbbin from the pain!! I am the complete opposite....I get extremely wet! Why is it that some girls just dont get wet? Besides not being horny? Thanks guys :wink