Premature ejaculation. - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

draco010302 · 10-04-2003, 03:30 AM

I suffer from premature ejaculation, I think. When I make love to my wife I ejaculate after anywhere 2 min. to 10 min. I want to sove this problem but I don't know how. I'm too embarassed to ask people I know so since this is anonomus I figure I can talk about it openly. When I make love to my wife I can have plans to do all sorts of things with her but when I ejaculate I lose my sex drive. I don't know why. I had a couple of girlfriends that I could ejaculate like three times without even pulling out but I can't do it with my wife. The other girlfriends were even less attractive than my wife so I don't think it is attraction. Someone please help.

german30 · 10-04-2003, 06:26 AM

Actually 2-10 minutes is above average for most guys, You mention that you can get-off 2-3 times with other gals, why not have your wife and/or both of you get you off before you start to make love and see if that will help. Let us know.

camden · 10-04-2003, 12:58 PM

Isn't that nice! Your "girlfriends"(they are called mistresses when you are screwing around on your wife)were even LESS attractive than your wife. I'm sure your pregnant wife would be happy to hear that you pick up girls uglier than she is! I can't imagine why your wife wouldn't want to satisfy a gem such as yourself.

I like the way you say that you plan to do all sorts of things with your wife. More like you had a list of things for her to do to you. After all, isn't the deal that you won't cheat if she keeps YOU satisfied. Sounds like she's doin all right!

Able Lena · 10-04-2003, 01:31 PM

If anyone is wondering about camden's impassioned response above, it's the continuation of another thread draco010302 started here:
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After reading the pregnancy thread, do the guys have any good advice for draco010302?

~ Lena