denim shorts fetish - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

hotguy23 · 10-05-2003, 11:13 PM

I'm a 23yo guy who is still a virgin. I masturbate about every other day, but I have a question. Around Jr.High school I developed a fetish for girls denim shorts. Seeing a girls wearing a hot pair turned me on. I would use pictures of girls wearing shorts to masturbate with. I did'nt think of it much at for a long time, but right after high school, the fetish got more intense, and I started buying girls denim shorts to use when I masturbate. I've probably had over 20 pair sence High School. I would get scared that someone would find the shorts, and I would'nt be able to explain why I had them, so I would throw them away, but I seem to always buy another pair. I can masturbate without the shorts, but it feel so much better if I use them. What could be the reason I like girls denim shorts so much? Should I try to stop using the shorts again? Why does it feel beter when I do use them. Please be honest and tell me what you think about my litte secret fetish. Thanks for any help.

Rikimaru · 10-06-2003, 10:50 AM

Well, the problem is that you're fixating on an object, rather than a person. I mean, it's not really hurting anyone... so I wouldn't say it's wrong or anything. But by fixating so much on denim shorts, you might be subverting your satisfaction with women. I'd mainly say if it gets in the way of your sex life (once you start having sex), then you need to talk to someone about it. You need to draw the line between what you enjoy in addition to sex, and what you're fixating on instead of having sex.