I am 38 years old never married.I am on complete HRT and have been for 12 years now. My question is this; can someone on complete hormone replacement have a "normal" sex life? My doctor says that everything will be normal for me. But I would be more confident hearing from someone who can attest that it is possible to be “normal”. I have not pursued marriage because I am not sure if I could fulfill marital duties. I’m just not sure what to do. Are there any married men who are on complete hormone replacement who have a reasonably normal sex life?
but I have heard that a normal life can be lived after HRT. However, sex may be more difficult to fullfil. For instance, prostate milking and anal sex is supposedly the best way to have an active sex life after HRT.
This isnt talking from personal experience, just from what i have heard.
Anon, I was hoping to get some serious input for a serious issue. Is prostrate milking what it sounds like? If thats the case sorry to disappoint you. And definitely no way to your other suggestion? I practice abstinence. That's why I'm in such a query.
josar that is just what i heard. its not from personal experience.
you didnt disappoint me..lol i dont know exactly why you would say that.
your the one on HRT not me...
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Originally posted by josar65: I am 38 years old never married.I am on complete HRT and have been for 12 years now. My question is this; can someone on complete hormone replacement have a "normal" sex life? My doctor says that everything will be normal for me. But I would be more confident hearing from someone who can attest that it is possible to be “normal”. I have not pursued marriage because I am not sure if I could fulfill marital duties. I’m just not sure what to do. Are there any married men who are on complete hormone replacement who have a reasonably normal sex life?
josar65 HRT will take care of your bodies ability to function. But that is only half the equation. You have to work on your mind set as well. You need to believe HRT doesn't mean sex for you will be "Abnormal" and only men not on HRT have "Normal" sex. A "Marital Duty" also can't be a good way of associating what sex in a marriage will be like. You'll be too anxious and won't get erect, which will have had nothing to do with the HRT. Learn to equate making love to your wife as "Fun" and "Exciting" as well as "Beautiful" . Not a duty which is more like a task or job expectation. All the HRT in the world won't help until you also get the help from a professional with experience on also changing your mindset about sex. You have had to endure so much for so long so you could get the mechanics of sex to function properly that you've understandably lost touch with all the glorious reasons we have sex.
Please Help. This has been brewing for a while 
