Able Lena

Hi,

You've already gotten really good comments - all of which I second. I just wanted to add that porn, in and of itself, isn't a problem. (Some people think it's inherently harmful. I don't believe that's true.) Theere would be a problme if someone was obsessive about the porn (or anything else, for that matter). As long as it's just something that compliments a healthy sex-life, I say sit back and enjoy. Or encourage him to enjoy it.

Did you ask him why he never thought to mention the subscription? Maybe he just really didn't think it was a big deal - just the way he felt like spending his discretionary income. Or maybe he sort of projected his own embarrasment about it onto you, so he assumed you would be uncomfortable with it and he avoided bringing it up. He certainly didn't go out of his way to hide it from you, so I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. Just let him know you saw the subscription, and you're really curious about what he likes. Ask him if there's anything good he wants to share with you! (Providing you're into that.)

Don't sweat it, just talk to him. ~ Lena