What are some exercises to do- or possible activities to make my erections last longer. Is this common: I had a strong erection for about 10-15 minutes of foreplay. I put on a condom and went in, but felt the urge to release...so I changed up positions, but in the process- when she was repositioning on top- I lost my erection and it didn't come back for a solid 20 minutes or so. I didn't ejaculate or anything like that.
It conjured up old thoughts of performance anxiety...
My past sexual experience hasn't been all that pleasant, so I'm learning how to be close with people again. I eventually was able to recover and finish up but - is this experience normal?
What are some things I can do to gain more control over my erections- and what are some ways to relax during sex...so as to avoid stress and premature ejaculation.
I really think letting go and just having a good time will be enough...but I'll have to work to get there. Any advice...especially about the erection.
My friend is a porn star and he told me what he does to maintain a erection and to prevent pre-ejaculation is when u masterbate,masterbate to the point of orgasming,but stop and don't make yourself release, just do that for awhile, it worked for me, and I don't have a problem anymore.It helps u last and control ur climax my girlfriend loves it.Plus once u get the hang of it ur confidence soars.
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go get yourself some viagra, cialis or levitra. Just pop half and store the other half in foil for tomorrow. you wont have to think about getting an erection then, it will just happen. once you're no longer stressing about it, things could be much better on their own.
I bought a product called Uroprin over the internet quite a while back. I bought it to help last a long time but apparently it is also good for getting erections which I don't need help with.
It worked great but unfortunately had some side effects on me so I rarely take it now. I would the next day have a very bad sick headache(i've read before that this can be a side effect of viagra too) and I would keep getting erections off and on during the couple or so days afterwards as I was extremely horney from it. If I'm having sex regularly I last a long time naturally, but I had bought it for first hooking up with a new girlfriend event when I had been without for a while. I didn't want to disappoint on first sexual encounter with her. So that is the only time I will using this again--- when I've been without for awhile. Oh yeah, I about forgot--it made my heart rate go up some for a short while. So I can't say if it's safe or not. I've heard claims that the product viagra has caused heartattacks but then again I think its been disputed so who knows?
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