| Re: too much masturbation ???
It could obviously just be mental. Having sex with a new person should be a very emotional experience. But it also struck me as possible that your problem is something simpler. You didn't mention if your foreskin is too tight to enjoy sex. Excessively tight foreskin can cause pain from stretching during sex (but not interfere with masturbating).
Does your foreskin retract fully and easily even when you have an erection? If not, you could just stretch out the opening, so that the foreskin can slide all the way back easily even with an erection. This should be done slowly and gently. Too much stretch and it tears and regrows scar tissue that doesn't want to stretch. There are good directions elsewhere on this forum: http://www.healthboards.com/boards/mens-health/178155-stretching-fix-tight-foreskin-phimosis.html
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