Re: Sexual Pleasure
First of all (just to be clear) by "circumcised," you mean that you do NOT have foreskin? (Occasionally people use terms backwards by mistake.)
It is true that the circumcised penis causes just over ten times more friction in sexual penetration ("intromission") compared to a penis with all its skin (Taves, 2002). As a consequence, circumcised men have a greater need to use lube for sex. (If you're circumcised, you must already know that masturbation is essentially impossible for you without lube).
It sounds like the main problem is that you need more lubrication. This is a common problem especially for beginners. Without lube, you're essentially giving her a "rug burn" (friction burn) on her very sensitive vagina (which must be painful for her!).
You should also probably be doing more to make her comfortable and make sure that she's enjoying herself (especially if you love and respect her!).
(By the way, do remember that with condoms, you can only use silicone or water-soluble lubricants. Condoms rip and dissolve in vaseline & regular oils like vegetable, petroleum, and mineral oils.)
Last edited by mc7; 11-06-2012 at 01:50 PM.