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Old 11-23-2012, 06:38 PM   #1
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Angry HELP - VERY frustrated!! PE

Hey all!

Briefly, I'm 24 yo, virgin, have this VERY VERY frustrating problem called premature ejaculation!!

I'm used to masturbate, maybe once every two days, maybe once a day sometimes! But this is not everything, i'm using porn as a masturbation aid.

Since i was 17 or 18 and keep masturbating, it wasn't that frequent, it increased progressively since then! I was doing it once a week or even two! Now it's devastating!!

Sometimes i try to dig into this problem myself and see if i really has PE or not, i masturbate without watching porn with slightly imagination to add some arousing weakening points, i'm not a big fan of mental fantasies tho, i can stay for more than 20 mins masturbating without blasting anything, and the erection still does the job VERY well!!

But once porn comes in, not just porn perhaps seeing a hottie may cause it as well, everything goes down quickly!! I'm frustrated, watching naked women on LCD is nothing besides having real touch of naked woman herself!! or as i see at least!!

OK i can watch porn for hours without ejaculating, i think i'm using that method of push and release, that once you get to the end, stop and start over, yes i do it, but the second, third, fourth,.... times don't make me last any longer than the first time, and even i try this method for years now, this couldn't be of any help in prolonging this **** so far!!

I even recently started to use my pants to masturbate using it, assuming a condom, in vain too!

I'm VERY VERY angry and anxious, i'm now so scared of approaching any girl lest of this could drag me into intercourse eventually!! I feel i can't satisfy anyone and even won't marry!!

HELP please!

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Old 11-23-2012, 06:41 PM   #2
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Re: HELP - VERY frustrated!! PE

My erection is very good and have no problems with balls! Just if it helps!

 
Old 11-24-2012, 01:56 AM   #3
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Re: HELP - VERY frustrated!! PE

1. Reduce habit of masturbation and watching porn.

2. Do useful avtivities, like swimming, jogging, anything that avoid you from sexual activity.

3. Eat fruits and vegetable, in proportional way. Avoid fat and cholesterol trigger, also alcoholand smoke.

4. The best and must obey! Never be alone for a long time. It usually creates boredom, and may trigger back the will to mstb and porn stuff.

 
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Thx for your reply.
But should i just reduce it or utterly end it? and is there any way to measure the frequency of mast as it's high or low?! like once a week or something or it just upon the person?!

 
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And avoid loneliness is something i can't do all the time, i've to be alone a lot of time!!

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Old 12-05-2012, 09:45 AM   #6
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Re: HELP - VERY frustrated!! PE

I don't understand your problem. Masturbating generally makes men take longer to orgasm in the future. The more common problem men have from watching porn is that they cannot easily orgasm from normal sex. You say this is the opposite of your problem. What is the wrong with this?

Do you have foreskin or were you circumcised?

 
Old 12-08-2012, 09:52 PM   #7
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i seem to be masturbating much more roughly when watching porn than solely masturbating, when i watch porn, i get aroused so quickly, yes i can hold it for hours but can't masturbate for a long time!
I'm circumcised tho!

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Old 12-11-2012, 07:46 PM   #8
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Re: HELP - VERY frustrated!! PE

Do you still have your frenulum? By any chance is your frenulum short and tight? There was a small study from China this year that showed men with PE had tight frenula, and that it was fixable by loosening the frenulum. This can be done with surgery or just with gentle stretching. You could see the thread on the Men's Health board Stretching To Fix Tight Foreskin (Phimosis). There are directions there for stretching "frenulum breve," which is not quite the same, but it's like what might be your problem. Could this be what your problem is?

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