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Old 12-18-2012, 05:50 AM   #1
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Swollen penis

Hi 2 weeks back i had sex this my gf her vagina was dry. I did sex with condom and later slept. Morning my penis became swollen with retracted foreskin. Went to doctor he punctured and brought it to normal state. But tell me how to avoid this condition next time when i have sex with her ??? Please help me.

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Old 12-19-2012, 07:31 AM   #2
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Re: Swollen penis

Hello Sriva,

It sounds as though you may have taken Cialis or Viagra. Priapism is an erection that lasts for more than 4 hours and is considered a medical emergency. Just pay attention to your erection after intercourse and if it doesn't go down to a flaccid state within 4 hours, you should go to the ER. You should consult your doctor if this happens again as priapism can cause permanent damage.

Good luck.

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Old 12-19-2012, 10:45 AM   #3
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The doctor told me that it is paraphimosis condition. He retracted my foreskin back to normal position. Now please suggest me how to avoid it again when i have sex with my girl.

 
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Re: Swollen penis

Sriva, after sex you should not leave your foreskin retracted: push it forwards to cover the penis head as soon as you withdraw. Your foreskin is tight but will become loose after you continue to have sex. In the meantime, go to the Men's Health Message Board and find the sticky headed Stretching To Fix Tight Foreskin (Phimosis) near the top of the page. Do those exercises regularly and your foreskin will become more supple. Do not leave your foreskin retracted for any length of time.

Do not have sex while your gf's vagina is dry. Allow at least 15 minutes for oral and digital stimulation of your girlfriend's vagina before you begin sex.
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Old 12-21-2012, 03:25 AM   #5
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If i do oral sex i may get infections na. So tell me how to make her vagina wet without orally.

 
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If your gf performs the usual hygiene, her vagina will be clean so you do not need to worry about infection. However, to lubricate the vagina, you could use natural oils, saliva, lube specifically intended for sex. Normally oral sex is ok. Other forms of stimulation include kissing and massage on any part of the body. Devote considerable time to stimulating your partner before vaginal sex.
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Old 12-21-2012, 04:00 AM   #7
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How can i make our sex more satisfactory ?? Only through vaginal sex or any other way.

 
Old 01-09-2013, 11:27 PM   #8
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How to avoid quick ejaculation while having sex with my gal. I'm able to do only for 20 minutes.

 
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You'll probably be able to have sex for a longer amount of time just with age. But 20 minutes isn't bad. That's not much too short or anything. I think you should work on being able to satisfy your girlfriend in that amount of time rather than just trying to last longer. I would think it's only because you're not doing enough for her that she's not enjoying those 20 min more (which is what everything else you've said sounds like as well).

If you want to have the best sex, you need to be more comfortable with your partner's body than you are. Performing oral sex shouldn't give you any infection.

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Old 02-05-2013, 07:02 AM   #10
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I suggest if shes dry.. Better always have lube ready. Im sure that was the problem. Sorry but commen sence would tell you this.

 
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Which sexual position gives more satisfaction to a gal ???

 
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Re: Swollen penis

People are different, so there is no one answer for what position is most satisfying.

I think your sexual problems all stem from the fact that you are not comfortable with her body. And I think that's your issue rather than hers. You should make sex about loving your partner--not just trying to follow some technical advice (like you're asking for).

You need to talk to her more to find out what she likes. You probably both need to talk more about what you want and like and how things make you feel. This should help you a lot to determine how to make her feel the best.

Also you need to learn more about the vagina. You seem to know nothing about it. There's so much to learn. No one's going to explain it to you personally (other than maybe your girlfriend). I suggest reading about it online and then talking with your gf about it. The vagina is complex. There is a lot going on in that small area. It should help you tremendously to learn how it works.

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