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Old 12-25-2012, 11:42 PM   #1
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20 years old and having issues in bed.

Ive had multiple girl friends and all where virgins... and there are no STDs involved. The issue is that with some girls i will ejaculate extremely fast and other times i wont. Condoms make me last longer which seems usual. But one girl everytime we get together ill be erected and then when it gets to putting it in i go soft or put a condom on i go soft. We try things to get me erected and once we do and i go in i have to *** like right away and its really embarrasing and i dont know why its just with her. i would really like to know why so im not a two shot pump anymore. Also its even difficult to get myself hard in the middle of the situation. Also when i masterbate i can make myself go in like 40 secs. I just dont know if im really sensitive or what. I need to know how to make myself last longer so i can satisfy my partners.

 
Old 12-27-2012, 09:01 PM   #2
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Re: 20 years old and having issues in bed.

I have had the same problem with a girl I've been sleeping with recently, I get aroused during the foreplay but when it comes to sex I something kicks into my head we're about to have sex and I start going soft, and as for condoms, I've halfway down by the time its out of the packet, thankfully we've been able to have sex without condoms, but as you pointed out, I shoot quickly, due to worries I won't stay hard during sex and also because I guess I'm very sensitive. So yeah it would be nice to be hard after the build up and naturally progress into sex without thinking about it and therefore my mind being free of worries, I can enjoy the sex and it would probably last a lot longer also.

Good luck with finding answers, I'm hoping for me, experience will help out and be less worried about sex and it being less of a big deal. Could this possibly be the reason things happen to you? Is having sex a really big deal?

 
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Old 12-28-2012, 12:22 PM   #3
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Re: 20 years old and having issues in bed.

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I have had the same problem with a girl I've been sleeping with recently, I get aroused during the foreplay but when it comes to sex I something kicks into my head we're about to have sex and I start going soft, and as for condoms, I've halfway down by the time its out of the packet, thankfully we've been able to have sex without condoms, but as you pointed out, I shoot quickly, due to worries I won't stay hard during sex and also because I guess I'm very sensitive. So yeah it would be nice to be hard after the build up and naturally progress into sex without thinking about it and therefore my mind being free of worries, I can enjoy the sex and it would probably last a lot longer also.

Good luck with finding answers, I'm hoping for me, experience will help out and be less worried about sex and it being less of a big deal. Could this possibly be the reason things happen to you? Is having sex a really big deal?
I have had a similar problem over the years with multiple girls. I start to have a firm erection but when it's time to penetrate, it goes soft. This is obviously very frustrating. It's almost as if the initial resistance of inserting into the vagina puts inward pressure on my penis, causing the blood to escape. At first I believed this was a psychological phenomenon, but the more it happens, the more I am starting to believe there is a physical issue going on.

 
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