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Old 01-16-2013, 03:38 AM   #1
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Erectile D. Please help with your opinion.


I am in a situation and want to get out of it. And I am willing to do everything and all the way to get out of it. It's about my sexual health. I am a man, 30 yrs of age from India.

(i) 5 years back I had a girl friend, who admitted that she was cheating on me and sleeping with another guy. I felt hurt. And I used tor run this thought over and over again and masturbated. I couldn't stop. I used to get an erection at the slightest of reasons.I felt I needed to something about it.
I went to a doctor, and told him that I wanted to forget it all, and keep from masturbating. [Here in India, along the countrysides, you would find quacks who prescribe medicines and are often very popular.] My doctor was one. He asked me to chew one leaf from a stone apple plant everyday and put me on some homoepathic medicine. I followed his advice for some weeks [I don't exactly remember for how long].
I was mentally depressed about the girl and I don't remember when I lost my libido. And then I visited a girl for paid sex, and I found that I couldn't get an erection. It was a bad experience. It was my first time.I was a virgin. What I remember is that I didn't like the whole experience. I didn't like touching the girl, and when she undressed. I didn't get hard.

(ii) In the more recent times I have had been intimate with more than one women but I didn't get erections good enough for sex, or/and I lost them very quickly. And I could never do it.

(iii) Presently, I am going steady with a woman I like. I have not tried to have sex yet, I feel scared.
Once she was touching me,and I had an erection. But I lost it quickly. And I fear, if I attempt to have sex I will not be able to keep it up.
I am scared and frustrated. I am 30 years, technically a virgin. And I have this erection problem. I miss those days when I would get rock hard at the slightest glimpse of a female skin. I think I don't feel horny enough. What is wrong with me? Can anyone help?

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Old 01-18-2013, 01:58 AM   #2
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Re: Erectile D. Please help with your opinion.

It's not an ED. It's your mind. Your body is your mind.

I could feel your emotions when you mentioned about the ex who cheated on you.

I could see you still and really love her, until now.

Don't worry, it happened to every man on Earth. Just differ in how it's ruined.

One recipe from my mother, and she's right about it, just like a lightning stormed into me,

"Why would you think about her,
while she doesn't care or think about you at all anymore?"

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Old 01-31-2013, 11:10 AM   #3
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I have been thinking about it all over again. And I think I sense something wrong with me. It isn't the same. Something is terribly wrong. I don't know where to start. And this sense of being a failure is just eating me up from inside. Please, help by telling me where to start.

Old 01-31-2013, 11:17 AM   #4
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P.S. (i) I masturbate. And I watch good amount of porn. To an extent, due to frustration, perhaps.

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