Erectile D. Please help with your opinion.
I am in a situation and want to get out of it. And I am willing to do everything and all the way to get out of it. It's about my sexual health. I am a man, 30 yrs of age from India.
(i) 5 years back I had a girl friend, who admitted that she was cheating on me and sleeping with another guy. I felt hurt. And I used tor run this thought over and over again and masturbated. I couldn't stop. I used to get an erection at the slightest of reasons.I felt I needed to something about it.
I went to a doctor, and told him that I wanted to forget it all, and keep from masturbating. [Here in India, along the countrysides, you would find quacks who prescribe medicines and are often very popular.] My doctor was one. He asked me to chew one leaf from a stone apple plant everyday and put me on some homoepathic medicine. I followed his advice for some weeks [I don't exactly remember for how long].
I was mentally depressed about the girl and I don't remember when I lost my libido. And then I visited a girl for paid sex, and I found that I couldn't get an erection. It was a bad experience. It was my first time.I was a virgin. What I remember is that I didn't like the whole experience. I didn't like touching the girl, and when she undressed. I didn't get hard.
(ii) In the more recent times I have had been intimate with more than one women but I didn't get erections good enough for sex, or/and I lost them very quickly. And I could never do it.
(iii) Presently, I am going steady with a woman I like. I have not tried to have sex yet, I feel scared.
Once she was touching me,and I had an erection. But I lost it quickly. And I fear, if I attempt to have sex I will not be able to keep it up.
I am scared and frustrated. I am 30 years, technically a virgin. And I have this erection problem. I miss those days when I would get rock hard at the slightest glimpse of a female skin. I think I don't feel horny enough. What is wrong with me? Can anyone help?
Last edited by Mod-S4; 01-16-2013 at 10:18 PM.