I have a problem that I don't understand and is very frustrating. I am 41 years old and I get great erections if I masturbate, and I typically orgasm quickly. When I am with my girlfriend or other women, I don't get a great erection and if I do, I will often soften during intercourse. I have tried Viagra and I get great erections then most of the time, not always, but most of the time. And when I do use Viagra, I often won't orgasm, or only seem to orgasm after a couple of hours and tons of effort. It's very frustrating and at times makes me avoid sex and just look forward to masturbating. Masturbating is easier, but I truly had much rather be having intercourse with a woman. I don't understand why I get such great erections alone, but feel like I need Viagra to achieve an erection with my partner. HELP!!
Hi, that's all becouse of masturbating, your penis got used to your hand, and of course it is more tied than the girls vagina, this problem was with me before, then i just quit masturbating. and now everything is fine, Just quit masturbating and you will be fine
This problem is psychological basically. When you do it yourself using your hand, you don’t bother about your performance. But in case when you are with a woman, you may think too much about performing in an excellent manner. If such is the case, you first need to overcome your this pre-occupied feeling.
Next, Viagra can create such problems that you are mentioning about. Avoid using it. Instead try using some herbal based pills that work naturally and don’t have any side effects.