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Old 07-04-2013, 01:53 PM   #1
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Masturbation and having sex with your girl friend

surely if you masturbate regularly but you find it difficult to have erections with your girl friend , it s all to do with confidence right ?

 
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Old 07-07-2013, 12:26 AM   #2
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Re: Masturbation and having sex with your girl friend

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surely if you masturbate regularly but you find it difficult to have erections with your girl friend , it s all to do with confidence right ?
Masterbation lowers your libido. Known fact. That's y u don't masterbate on days you expect sex. When I'm single I normally masterbate. In a relationship I never felt the need too unless she was on the rag or away for a week.

 
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Old 07-08-2013, 02:08 AM   #3
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Re: Masturbation and having sex with your girl friend

what i meant if you find it difficult to get it up with a woman but no have no problem getting hard when you masturbate surely it s all a sign of lacking confidence right ( re performance anxiety ) and being a physical or medical complaint ?


BASICALLY IS MASTURBATION AND HAVING SEX BASICALLY THE SAME SORT OF ACTIVITIES ?

 
Old 07-08-2013, 05:16 AM   #4
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what i meant if you find it difficult to get it up with a woman but no have no problem getting hard when you masturbate surely it s all a sign of lacking confidence right ( re performance anxiety ) and being a physical or medical complaint ?


BASICALLY IS MASTURBATION AND HAVING SEX BASICALLY THE SAME SORT OF ACTIVITIES ?
It could be a form of performance anxiety. I know when I was younger, my performance anxiety was how long I'd be able to last. And that worked against me bc I'd ejaculate in 2-3 min.

Lately I've been dealing with post break up anxiety and the fear I've lost the sexual interest in one woman. The last two one night stands I had I was only able to go one round 20 min to half hr each. Came then lost desire to continue. In te past I could have a marathon.

But I think you're situation. Think about what turns you on when you masterbate but don't masterbate. Everything I was told is masterbation could work against you in performance anxiety. I thought masterbation would help me not ejaculate early if I did it before sex. However I found out that's a myth. Tey it.

 
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