| Re: Couldn't have sex?
HI Teen1603,
Having sex for the first time is a huge step! I am going to assume you have thought about this and are honestly prepared to take this step; and that you thought about birth control and protection from STDs as well...
Assuming you have all that covered, the first time is still overwhelming. It is more than likely the fact that both of you were so nervous that things went alitttle wrong. A man losing his erection is usually stress related and as you said, he was afraid of hurting you and probably had a few other things on his mind like pregnancy potential and maybe even "getting caught" depending on where you were doing this...
For a woman, if we get nervous, it usually causes dryness and our vaginal mucles to tighten up. This makes penetration much harder!
My suggestion for you both is to try again when you are completely relaxed and have plenty of time to take with this. Be sure that you are both completely aroused before trying anything.
Unfortuantely, sex is something that takes practice and the first time or two may not be all that wonderful (or it might be, some woman claim their first time is not at all painful and wonderful)....but once you get it done the first time each time will get easier.
I hope this helps...
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RRMS- dx 05
Last edited by Mod-S4; 01-02-2017 at 09:41 PM.
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