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Old 11-11-2003, 10:34 PM   #1
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desperately confused.. on why i can't O

hey this has me wondering... ok i enjoy oral and making out.. but seriuosly i dont feel very comfortable with my body.. or doing anything.. i mean it feels good to be fingered.. but ive never orgasimed... before in my life...i dont know whats wrong with me... maybe its because i think to much about if ill do it right.. sometimes it just doesn't feel good.. is there osmething worng with me???? plsz help... could it be because im not comfortable with the guy??? god i feel so embarassed all my friends can orgasim.. but i cant.. errg so frustrating

 
Old 11-12-2003, 08:43 AM   #2
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Originally Posted by so_cunfuzzled
hey this has me wondering... ok i enjoy oral and making out.. but seriuosly i dont feel very comfortable with my body.. or doing anything.. i mean it feels good to be fingered.. but ive never orgasimed... before in my life...i dont know whats wrong with me... maybe its because i think to much about if ill do it right.. sometimes it just doesn't feel good.. is there osmething worng with me???? plsz help... could it be because im not comfortable with the guy??? god i feel so embarassed all my friends can orgasim.. but i cant.. errg so frustrating
i think its normal but if your really concerned you should ask a doctor

 
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Old 11-12-2003, 09:00 AM   #3
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reminder: no instructional how-to's are allowed in replies to this post... thanks!

 
Old 11-19-2003, 02:42 PM   #4
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I wouldnt worry about it if I were you. I'm sure you will eventually get your big "O"
I was sexually active with my b/f for over a year before I had my first orgasim and I still dont have an orgasim every time we have sex. Alot of women have this same problem, you are not the only one, trust me. My advice is to relax and enjoy sex and not even think about the "O" , when you think about it, it takes away from the pleasure of sex. and when you worry and try to hard to have one, it backfires. so, just have fun and wait for it to suprise you!!

 
Old 11-19-2003, 03:10 PM   #5
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Dont worry sooner or later it will came. Just relax and enjoy what you'r doing. If it's not pleasurable tell your partner you dont like it or tell him what you like.

 
Old 11-20-2003, 06:36 AM   #6
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Lightbulb Re: desperately confused.. on why i can't O

it could be nerves, or birth control, too...BC pills are known to decrease sexual response, but good god don't go off them for anything if you're on them. condoms sometimes reduce sensation, try polyurethane ones instead of latex, they make you more sensitive...

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Old 11-20-2003, 02:08 PM   #7
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Re: desperately confused.. on why i can't O

If your stressed over it (which it kinda sounds like you are) then believe me it won't happen.
(been there done that)....

 
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