Just_me_again, when you look at your pubic area you can se the two mayor labia (lips) usually very close together, also you can see a little protruding between you mayor labia which is you clitoreal area. If you split the mayor labia you will see the clitoris, and the minor labia. The clitoris itself, use to be replegated under a little hood (clitoris prepuscio) and under it a frenulum. Also you will be able to see your urinari meatus (the small hole from where your pee goes out)
By opening the ninor labia, you wil find the entrance of your vagina (vaginal vestibule) and you hymem.
Once you have sex and are penetrated you hymen will look torn, hence you had loose your virginity.
Try to find a good, clear and well drawn atlas of women pubic area. There are many on the web. Is very important for young people to know what you have, where is and how it works. If you make relations by thinking on the matter you will understand many of the questions you have. For the ones you cannot understand you can ask, but you has to do your homework first.
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