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Hi Jagg – if I may add my opinion of a good kisser (although everyone is different in what they like.) I like a man to keep his lips relaxed, first off. Too much pucker feels too firm and rigid. Start out with small kisses on her lips and if you sense she likes this, gently open your mouth (not too wide – you’re not at the dentist) and slip your tongue in her mouth to meet her tongue.

You’ll know right away if she is enjoying this by her tongue response. Gently circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of hers or just follow her lead as far as tongue movements. If you sense she likes this, gradually open your mouth a little wider and insert your tongue a little further still probing gently. What you don’t want to do is open your mouth too wide or shove your tongue down her throat or keep your tongue too rigid… let it be soft and just explore slowly, gently. Every now and then you can come back to a small simple kiss, and then begin tongue-play again. A bad kisser in my opinion is a guy that tries to mimic the rhythm of intercourse right off the bat and nearly gags me – drives me nuts.

Anyway, keep the kiss short (unless you know she is enjoying it) and end with your mouth gently closing and just your lips touching hers. If you both start really getting into the kiss, you can throw some variations in there – i.e. gently sucking on her lower lip, upper lip or tongue – for kiss play, pass an ice cube back and forth. Much luck!